What Are The Children Of Permissive Mothers Like?

The children of permissive mothers can be as normal children and adolescents as the others. There are some very good and obedient, others a little more rebellious … like everything in life it cannot be asserted that mothers in this way or another necessarily raise a specific type of child.

However, it is said that a large percentage of children with permissive mothers do abuse, in one way or another, the way their mothers are.

Permissibility weakens respect

When a mother is respected, the son listens to her whenever she speaks to him, heeds her suggestions (even if he does not follow them to the letter), treats her well, speaks to her in a low voice and never violates her in the verbal plane and, much less, on the physical.

Respect for a mother is affection, obedience, empathy, consideration…; there are women who, from an early age, teach their children that. To instill that knowledge in them, they use demand and discipline, always putting love first.

On the other hand, there are mothers who pamper, spoil, indulge their children regardless of the context; mothers who turn a blind eye, and tolerate, suffer, endure insolence that although at the beginning, when their children were small, they were taken as a grace, a childish; with the passage of time they were magnified until arriving at the thoughtlessness, the disrespect and the outrage.

What are permissive mothers like?

Permissive mothers are people who demand little or nothing of their children; for them, everything children do is fine. They do not demand, punish, scold … Or worse, scold but then repent and agree with their children.

Permissive mothers are women who forget mistakes very easily and forgive them much more readily for convenience, because they do not dare to be firm for fear of antagonizing their children.

Nothing that their children do or say is so bad as to punish, because the immense love of a mother, as they think and feel, must be blind.

What are the children of permissive mothers like?

The children of permissive mothers are usually:

Tyrant children

Many children of permissive mothers are tyrannical children; that is to say, little ones difficult to deal with who do not take into account the consequences of their actions and who always act at will.

These little ones are raised in the heat of excessive pampering and the excessive consent of their mothers.

Child tyrants who feel supported by permissibility feel they have the license to hurt and upset everyone around them, even strangers.

Your goal is to satisfy your own whims at any cost.

Spoiled children

Children who are educated under the excess of permissibility of their mothers can become spoiled little ones who will surely believe themselves worthy of everything, without respecting anything or anyone.

They will develop poor self-control, they will hardly care about good manners and they will be reluctant to follow norms and rules of behavior so life in society will be very difficult for them. 

They become less tolerant, manipulative, irresponsible, self-centered, and lacking in empathy.

Children with behavior problems

Unfortunately, many of the children seen on the street with behavior problems are the children of permissive mothers who did not bother to impose good discipline on them. They were not controlled, educated, guided by their adults when they most needed this type of care.

In the absence of control, their social behavior becomes a problem for the community from adolescence.

Children of permissive mothers are procrastinators

The pandemic of modern life has a name and it is: procrastination. While not all children of permissive mothers are spoiled children or with social behavior problems, most of the children of permissible mothers are procrastinators.

Current evidence suggests that procrastinators procrastinate rather than work on assigned tasks, until mounting pressure from impending deadlines forces them to go to work.

– Dianne Tice—

The lack of demand towards their children has turned them into individuals who always seek to postpone tasks and situations that, as they consider, they can always solve later, tomorrow, next month … And this causes serious long-term problems. Create irresponsible adults.